Ask HN: How do you handle an employee who complies but never delivers?
12 points by tropicalfruit 18 hours ago
I'm managing a long-term team member who has become very difficult to manage. They appear polite, cooperative, never openly push back. They acknowledge requests, attend meetings, and respond professionally.
But in reality:
- Tasks come back half-done, again and again
- Feedback is acknowledge and then ignored
- Bugs get buried in vague responses like “works on my side”
- Messages are not replied to sometimes, or they claim “was busy, didn’t see it”
- They never say “no,” but everything gets stuck in this slow grind
They’re not openly insubordinate. Just draining.
We can’t fire them easily as they're here for over 10 years they haven’t broken any rules or gross misconduct.
But they’ve made themselves completely unreliable in the last few months.
Anyone dealt with this kind of passive resistance?
How do you actually move someone like this — or do you just sideline them and minimize the damage?
An employee doesn't just suddenly go awol for no reason if they've been a model employee for over 10 years. This is burnout probably triggered by something big that happened in their personal life. Maybe a death in the family, a broken relationship, etc. It's no joke.
That's gonna make them really wonder about the meaning of life. If you haven't been paying him well or been providing increases to his salary, then that's gonna trigger an even more avalanche of existential thoughts.
The guy needs a break, let him have it. People aren't machines that are oblivious to external pressures outside of work. You can ask if everything's ok, but don't push it as it's people's personal lives. Propose he take a long vacation in your next 1:1, at least one month break. If he doesn't have enough vacation to cover, then just grant him special permission to take it under the table. He's been there for 10 years, he deserves a rest.
Don't be like shitlassian. https://shitlassian.com/ The fact that management is already considering firing this person for slipping after 10 years without any consideration to the person themselves, but can't because of some 'technical company rule' is pretty toxic IMO.