Comment by Imustaskforhelp

Comment by Imustaskforhelp 5 days ago

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Dude if you only want to use insta for dms, try bleeper. I swear, most of my school friends only use / are active on insta and I never used insta because I Hated reels / insta in general (my personal opinion, never found it appealing)

So my friend suggested me to use bleeper, I had heard of it ofc but I mean I always thought eh it would be too much of an hassle, then when my friend did it and said its easy so I actually downloaded bleeper created an insta with a password on private incognito and then just pasted the password to my phone's bleeper in insta and then gave it to friend and boom I am now in insta dms without using insta.

And its all free. and they even run on matrix protocol and are pushing to be even more self hosted (ie. currently the account gets in their server, (i think) afterwards, it would be on your local device)

Seriously man, I think I am sort of a shill of bleeper even though they don't even know who I am or I have an incentive to, but I genuinely like their product. I genuinely hope that they don't ever enshitten it man. Bleeper team if you are reading this, that's my only request, don't add power creep, keep on focusing on local as you are doing right now and just don't ever enshitten your product.

heresie-dabord 5 days ago

Sincere question: What is the reason for the popular appeal of using Instagram for messaging?

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  • kevincox 5 days ago

    Because it is what your friends and potential friends are using.

    It isn't really a noteworthy messaging app other than bring attached to a popular app.

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    • heresie-dabord 5 days ago

      > potential friends

      Hmm. So it's the perceived "best place" as a default. Is there some "discoverability" feature as well?

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      • cj 5 days ago

        He means in real life.

        You’re at a bar. You meet someone. They ask for your insta username to follow/message you.

        Making friends and meeting people is hard enough for most people. The added friction of not being reachable on the platforms people use every day for messaging isn’t ideal. It’s not ideal to say “Sorry, I’m philosophically against social media so I can’t give you a username, you’ll have to text me” - and then you risk alienating them.

        (You’d be surprised the percentage of people who rarely if ever use SMS these days, all the young people I know use Snap or Insta to talk to each other)

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  • diggan 4 days ago

    > What is the reason for the popular appeal of using Instagram for messaging?

    Same reason people use any social network: because your friends, family and/or people you otherwise/somehow care about are there.

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    • reaperducer 4 days ago

      Same reason people use any social network: because your friends, family and/or people you otherwise/somehow care about are there.

      If they're on Instagram, aren't they necessarily also on SMS, plus a billion other people? All ad-free?

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      • diggan 4 days ago

        > If they're on Instagram, aren't they necessarily also on SMS

        Many people have friends in different countries, and while intra-country SMS is usually free, cross-country ones usually aren't. I think out of my current friend circle, literally all of them have at least one friend outside of the country where they live, but as an immigrant I'm probably biased too.

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      • gonzalohm 4 days ago

        SMS is stuck in the past, even with RCS. Apple has used SMS as the wall of their walled garden for years. As an android user, it was extremely annoying to text to Apple devices (and still is to some degree)

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      • loloquwowndueo 4 days ago

        If they’re on instagram they’re already in the Facebook ecosystem which means WhatsApp should not be objectionable and it covers the messaging aspect quite well.

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    • heresie-dabord 4 days ago

      Sure, but why Instagram specifically? Is this just first-mover/early-mover advantage or is IG better at something?

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      • diggan 4 days ago

        > Sure, but why Instagram specifically?

        Because Instagram is specifically the place that those people already are. It really isn't hard to understand why others join it. They weren't even first, just the place where people ended up being, until they won't be there anymore and instead it'll be another place.

        Also matters what niche/community you're a part of, some of them already left Instagram for other places (like furries seems to have gone to Mastodon/Bluesky as far as I can tell [but not a furry, so please don't sue me if I'm wrong]) while others are still there, like most musicians/artists still seem to prefer Instagram, even non-mainstream ones.

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      • Imustaskforhelp 4 days ago

        I think that's because that for me personally, I am genz and my generation / my school friends are just hooked up onto it. Literally 99% of my schoolmates were there.

        It was the only way that I can keep in touch with my schoolmates / friends for years and though I have their number, we don't have any group chat aside from instagram and I use beeper to actually make it sane to use

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      • stavros 4 days ago

        Some of the reason might be that you don't need to share your phone number for it.

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philipp-gayret 4 days ago

Bleeper or Beeper (https://www.beeper.com)? Beeper is an app like you describe, can't find Bleeper. And it's by Automattic which I think have an OK reputation for not destroying their products.

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