Comment by mock-possum

Comment by mock-possum a day ago

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Hard disagree with ‘great to be bored’ - being bored is one of the worst possible feelings, that you’re wasting your time doing nothing when there is almost certainly something you would rather be doing.

As a child I used to hate the feeling of boredom, knowing that I could be doing something I wanted to do. As an adult I am hardly ever bored, and it’s a strict improvement, never have I ever found myself wishing I could just go back to being bored.

Boredom is such a negative emotion that learning to manage it effectively becomes an essential life skill. Learning to set yourself up for success / be prepared required forethought to anticipate the possibility of boredom and come prepared to deal with it. Acting out on boredom is childish, learning to keep yourself occupied so you don’t become bored is mature.

GJim a day ago

> Hard disagree with ‘great to be bored’ - being bored is one of the worst possible feelings, that you’re wasting your time doing nothing when there is almost certainly something you would rather be doing.

You <---> The point

Being bored is what inspires a kid to daydream for themselves and/or get off their arse and try something new.

Being constantly "entertained" by a TV or fondle slab is an anathema to creativity and independent thought. For children and adults.

  • senordevnyc 20 hours ago

    So really, boredom itself isn't what's good, it's actually used as something uncomfortable that encourages kids (or adults) to go find something interesting to alleviate the discomfort.

    For the record, I've also told my daughter that "boredom is good for her", but this is clarifying my thinking on it.

n4r9 6 hours ago

Learning to sit with your thoughts for a while is a good life skill.