Comment by huevosabio

What do you like to do? Do it with full intensity and seek IRL clubs/communities built around that activity.

What I love about the modern world is how for any niche activity there seems to be a community. You'll find that those that partake in the activity will have conversations beyond small talk. And when not talking you're doing this thing you like to do!

Its important to do it intensely and in a place with people IRL.

Focus on that for a while and you'll feel better and start hanging out with people.