Comment by throwawaylaptop

Comment by throwawaylaptop 15 hours ago

15 replies

I have two friends that installed them to basically deter their wives from cheating at their house when they are away. You could argue it's to 'catch' but obviously they aren't even going to attempt it knowing the cameras are present.

abujazar 14 hours ago

That's quite abusive behavior. I'm sorry for these wives, having to deal with this as it's probably not the only thing they have to endure. And how do the spouses "prove" they're not cheating when they're away - or is that not so important because they can choose to do whatever?

  • worthless-trash 11 hours ago

    Can we stop labeling anything that makes someone 'unhappy' as abusive. Its not and i'm tired of pretending it is.

    • k1t 9 hours ago

      Installing cameras to control/monitor your spouse is definitely abusive behavior.

toofy 12 hours ago

partner installing cameras to try and catch them cheating? that’s creepy af, no wonder they’re cheating.

if they can’t leave their creepy partner for some reason, hopefully they look up how to bypass security cameras in an obvious way just to annoy the creepy guy.

pxc 12 hours ago

If the wives want to cheat, won't they then just do it somewhere else? Or is that actually the point, they just don't want their memories of the house tainted, or to be traumatized by coming home to it?

hulitu 4 hours ago

> I have two friends that installed them to basically deter their wives from cheating at their house when they are away.

In some coutries, this will land them in jail.

GuinansEyebrows 15 hours ago

i feel like there are a lot of things i could say but i'll leave it at "woof"

  • throwawaylaptop 14 hours ago

    In regards to how often people cheat in marriage (the stats are a bit sad), or of someone using cameras to deter it from happening?

    • amanaplanacanal 14 hours ago

      By the time you decide to install cameras to deter your partner from cheating, your relationship is already way beyond fucked.

      • throwawaylaptop 14 hours ago

        I also know people that installed gps trackers and audio listening devices in cars to verify cheating. Everyone that needed to verify for their own sanity did indeed find proof.

        Fyi, this was amongst car salesman. But I can't say the 10%+ stat is too far off for other industries too.

    • GuinansEyebrows 14 hours ago

      yes, and more! but my feelings on the situations you've described are off topic :)

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