Comment by stickfigure 15 hours ago
If you're going to run on more than one piece of hardware, something is going to be remote to your single writer database.
As an industry, we've generally decided against "one big box", for reasons that aren't necessarily performance related.
I think people's reaction to cloud vendors is to go local first. But, there's a middle ground VPS, rented server, even self hosting.
My problem with local first is it's fine for solo apps with the occasional sync. But doesn't work for medium to large datasets and the stuff I work in is generally real-time and collaborative. To me multiplayer is one of the strengths of the web.
I sometimes dream of a local-first world in which all software works with local DB and only writes to the cloud as an afterthought, maybe as a backup or a way to pick up work on another machine. It just boggles my mind that more software nowadays relies on an always on internet connection for no good reason other then the design itself.