Comment by hu3

Comment by hu3 2 days ago

8 replies

> Rational people do it at home all the time to this day.

I had to read again 3 times. Are you serious?

If there is any complication, you're risking 2 lives.

swalberg 2 days ago

Father of 3 here, first two were home births, the third had complications and ended up being a hospital birth. I was initially skeptical for the same reasons but the first meeting with the midwife convinced me that they were taking every precaution and had the training to deal with whatever might come up.

The majority of births are simple if you let them be and the midwives go to great lengths to make sure the conditions are right for a successful event. In the case of our third we hit some conditions leading up to the delivery date that disqualified us for a home birth so we seamlessly transitioned into the hospital system (where the midwife still delivered the baby)

  • izacus 2 days ago

    Is this mindset the cause of US skyrocketing child mortality?

    • hu3 2 days ago

      ikr.

      They rather try their luck at home than leverage a thousand years of medical research that culminates in hospitals.

      Not once but 3 times. I'd be pissed knowing my parents put me through such unnecessary risk.

a_tartaruga 2 days ago

Home birth is absolutely a rational choice in many cases. The author had a very strong reason to require hospital birth but in scenarios with lower risk it is safer in some respects to avoid the hospital.

It will still cost you 5 - 10k for a good midwife and you'll still want to be insured in case you need to transfer. So it only knocks off 5-10k from the total.

  • ErroneousBosh 2 days ago

    Why are you paying to give birth at home when there's a hospital right there, that has all the equipment in case anything goes sideways?

    • a_tartaruga 2 days ago

      The two biggest benefits are reduction of iatrogenic harm and comfort for the mother delivering.

      Midwives are medical professionals who have the equipment and expertise to intervene in the most common scenarios that require it.

      • ErroneousBosh a day ago

        Okay, that's a fairly interesting take on it.

        So - no pain relief, and if anything goes even a tiny bit sideways you just throw your hands up and expect to lose both the mother and child?

        And you actually pay for this?