Comment by karmakaze
The definitional size I've read and heard is that you team could (with the benefit of hindsight) be able to reimplement a microservice in 2 weeks. That sounds fairly extreme but a month seems within reason to me.
The other key difference between microservices and other architectures is that each microservice should do its primary function (temporarily) without hard dependencies, which basically means having a copy of the data that's needed. Service Oriented Architecture doesn't have this as one of its properties which is why I think of it as a mildly distributed monolith. "Distributed monolith" is the worst thing you could call a set of microservices--all the pain without the gains.
That's a pretty extreme definition in my opinion.
Google played a role in popularizing the microservice approach.
When I was at Google, a microservice would often be worked on with teams of 10-30 people and take a few years to implement. A small team of 4-5 people could get a service started, but it would often take additional headcount to productionize the service and go to market.
I have a feeling people overestimate how small microservices are and underestimate how big monorepos are. About 9 times out of ten when I see something called a monorepo it's for a single project as opposed to a repo that spans multiple projects. I think the same is true of microservices. Many things that Amazon or Google considers microservices might be considered monoliths by the outside world.