Comment by ianpenney

Comment by ianpenney 2 days ago

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Article leans heavily towards American social norms which are so far from global norms because it treats the U.S. model of dating (apps, atomized urban life, and market logic) as universal, ignoring that in much of the world relationships still form through family, community, or social context rather than algorithmic matchmaking. It’s a very “Silicon Valley is the world” kind of framing.

For example a lot of communities in Canada just don’t work like this. Highly incompatible with this kind of social network, mostly due to the pre existing real social fabric.

And: shout out to Max and Chris because they really got it with OKC in the beginning, which this article doesn’t seem to say anything about other than just to name drop.

relaxing a day ago

You want one guy writing a blog to be an expert on dating worldwide?

I don’t like rampant US-centrism either, but at some point just write your own article on dating in Canada eh?

I’m guessing the author wasn’t around for the glory days of OKCupid. A distant memory at this point.