Comment by CGMthrowaway

I suspect your comment references Allie Stuckey, who wrote a book "Toxic Empathy" and was viral in a video with this idea recently.[1] To the unfamiliar reader, her concept of "toxic empathy" can be boiled down thus-

-Empathy becomes "toxic" when it encourages a person to affirm sin, validate lies or support destructive policies

-Truth over feelings. Biblical love does not blindly affirm an individual's feelings or choices if those choices violate moral truth

For a tangible example of these ideas and their connect to the Gospel (what "the founder" taught), watch the video.

[1]https://youtu.be/BUjeVodnbzA?t=2978