Comment by robotresearcher 3 days ago
Good lord, we have very different interpretations of ‘burden’. I had healthy, happy, typical children that I loved to bits and they were absolutely a burden! Some days I could barely deal.
Acknowledging that the things you love are a huge pain in the ass sometimes and keeping on loving them is perfectly healthy.
Spiritual strength is the ability to be a smug jerk to others because you think you’re better than them. It certainly is a coping mechanism for some people, but it’s hardly one that should be encouraged.
If you think it's "nice" suggesting to people that their close family must not love them, and they must not adequately love the close family that they cared for, then I recommend you don't be "nice".
In this case, if you are more spiritually strong you are, the less ability to absorb feedback on your communication style you will have.
A burden is a heavy load. The stronger you are the less things are a burden to you. In this case, if you are more spiritually strong you are, the fewer burdens you will have.