Comment by oldmandev

Comment by oldmandev 13 hours ago

2 replies

I agree that sleep and exercise are key.

Some have pain and/or insomnia waking them up at night with the inability to get back to sleep quickly or at all, and some have pain/injuries that make exercise less fun.

Telling us to sleep and exercise is like telling homeless and starving people to get off the streets, find a job, eat a good dinner, and buy a house. It sounds nice, and we’ll do our best, but the world you live in is different, and you don’t understand.

shakna 12 hours ago

True, but as someone with a pain condition... Most throwaway suggestions won't help out. People always try to help, but rarely can. That's fine. Take the kindness, discard the advice.

But because I've struggled with this thing for decades, I probably do have enough tools to find my own way. And if I've run out, it means I'm about to burnout and need to find a way to restore ASAP.

arcanemachiner 5 hours ago

When people are giving generic advice, they're obviously not talking about corner cases.

Don't be such a victim. Not everyone is going to think of your exact situation in every sentence they write.