Violence is okay to perpetrate, but not to respond with. A violent person will probably get it out of their system quickly. If you fight them, though, that creates a feedback loop that won't stop until someone is injured or dead. Just let people express themselves and everyone will be fine.
This mindset is what perpetually allows the violent to abuse the weak. What a violent person needs is a boot in the mouth. Or as many as necessary until he understands that’s not the way to behave. We are talking about people who generally have a low level of intelligence and do not understand anything else.
Does that mean the boot-weirder is also a violent person in need of a boot to the mouth?
Or is it not “real” violence if it’s justified? In which case, pretty much all violent people will tell you they are justified.
Which means it reduces to “it’s ok for me to be violent because I’m righteous, unlike those thugs”
At first glance I read this as a troll comment. But with your comment history, I'm not so sure.
"Violence is okay to perpetrate, but not to respond with."
That's a value judgement. Here's my value judgement: Violence is not OK to perpetrate and a response of any magnitude to stop that violence is acceptable, up to and including killing the assailant.
Glad I live in a state within the US that supports this value, as well as providing people the means to do what they need to do if they find themselves victimized.
I don't think you'd feel at home here.