Comment by zer00eyz

Comment by zer00eyz 3 days ago

4 replies

So because it has a foreign name its not rich influencer nonsense?

> The estimated cost for a pui yuet in Hong Kong ranges from 63,800 Hong Kong dollars (US $8,100) to 268,000 Hong Kong dollars (US $34,100) for 26 to 30 nights for a live-in nanny

This is really spendy even for china.

DemocracyFTW2 3 days ago

I think the answer is really in the section titled "Lack of postpartum care in the US"

  • oceanhaiyang 3 days ago

    I think it’s lack of postpartum care and individualism restricting what family members are willing to do for one another. As someone between both world I think there ought to be a mix between individualism and filial piety.

oceanhaiyang 3 days ago

As someone with a lot of Chinese family and children it can be as expensive or as cheap as possible. The expensive end includes a live in helper who does everything including cook and take care of baby when mama isn’t breast feeding them.

I wish I could have afforded this because American families do not help enough. Chinese side spoils our child and is, American side not so much…