Comment by nuldev
I don't know man... in general, these arguments seem more like pulling out the rug from a discussion by obfuscating arguments through abstract yet vague claims with some intellectual snobbery to make them feel correct, a trump card argument.
You win either by slinging undue complexity and forcing others to tap-out of the discussion in an awkward pause, or if a counter argument is made, you claim they do not understand your original argument.
I feel like the author is really trying hard to justify why they are not having kids. Fine! that is their preference, there is no need to justify it.