Comment by vrosas
Think of otel as just a standard data format for your logs/traces/metrics that your backend(s) emit, and some open source libraries for dealing with that data. You can pipe it straight to an observability vendor that accepts these formats (pretty much everyone does - datadog, stackdriver, etc) or you can simply write the data to a database and wire up your own dashboards on top of it (i.e. graphana).
Otel can take a little while to understand because, like many standards, it's designed by committee and the code/documentation will reflect that. LLMs can help but the last time I was asking them about otel they constantly gave me code that was out of date with the latest otel libraries.