Comment by jermaustin1

Comment by jermaustin1 3 days ago

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I feel like my wife’s job is AI proof as a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, but there might be a downturn that affects how much she can earn, which means I don’t need as lofty ambitions for my future job of “farming” - basically 1-2acres of veggie patches, and couple chicken coops to sell and eat.

orionsbelt 3 days ago

Many people are using AI for therapy now. Even if AI gets as good or better than the average therapist, I think some people will prefer to see a human in person, so her job should be safe in that sense. But I wouldn’t be surprised if rates go down as the fee sensitive shift to AI.

  • jermaustin1 3 days ago

    I wouldn’t trust AI with my therapy. I’ve done “sessions” with it before to just see how good it would be, it’s about as good as Eliza. My wife ripped them apart.

    It gets concepts wrong, and can’t resolve interweaving narratives which a human can follow without issue. The advice it gives is generic and impersonal, and if you’ve ever had real therapy, you immediately sense of it’s short comings.

    I’m sure a lot of that gets less noticeable as training and models get better, but it seems like we’re plateauing in the returns we get from more training.

    • ravenstine 3 days ago

      Unless something changes, I think that even the idea of AI being your "friend" is a giant meme. Kind of like dating apps, people will claim all the kids today have AI friends and AI therapists and talk it up as if it's just ad good, but there's a good chance that, given a decade, everyone will recognize that it's crap.

      Human knowledge is not the same thing as human experience. Create an AI that experiences the world autonomously, experiences trauma and come back to me.

      I say this as someone who uses AI and doesn't completely dismiss it like many on HN these days. So far, I don't see it replacing the human being for connection and understanding. Replacing coders? That's a whole other question.

    • seunosewa 3 days ago

      The most recent AIs are really good. Which one did you use? The AI is free and always willing to talk and adapt to your needs.

  • xboxnolifes 3 days ago

    I'm not sure how AI would be successful for group therapy like marriage counseling though. One of the the primary benefits is having a mediator for conversation.

    • orionsbelt 3 days ago

      I haven’t tried it, and I’m not sure how good it is currently in terms of actually therapeutic benefit, but I would guess using OpenAI’s advanced voice mode, and giving it a good prompt telling it to play the role of a marriage therapist, would actually work pretty well in terms of conversing with two people, listening to both, being empathetic, guiding each person to really hear the other, etc.

Dig1t 3 days ago

How will you pay for property taxes?

Similar plans, but the problem I have is that property taxes are onerous anywhere near a population center.

The food you grow can likely sustain you depending on where you are in the country, you can dig a well for water, and you can buy solar panels for power. But the taxes never go away.

  • whall6 3 days ago

    I think you can apply for an ag exemption depending on location

    • Dig1t 3 days ago

      Where I am, the ag exemption barely blunts the taxes. You can claim the exemption on the land on which your house does not sit, but the house itself and the 1 acre around it is not exempt. Anywhere near a major population center, a house + 1 acre can be thousands, if not tens of thousands, per year in property taxes.

    • giantg2 3 days ago

      Ag exemptions vary, but it usually ends up that you still owe a significant amount. Usually it's something like you get a break on the tax on the land/barn/etc,but still owe all or most of the amount on the house.

  • jermaustin1 3 days ago

    Our property tax is right at $250/yr. It’s the home insurance that terrifies me, went from $1300/yr to $2300 last year, and I’m waiting get the new increase in August.

    • giantg2 3 days ago

      That doesn't seem to add up. Even .5% on a $150k house should be 3x that tax. $2300 in insurance on a $150k house is outrageous.

      • paulcole 3 days ago

        You seem to be familiar with the situation. What are the property tax laws and insurance risk where the commenter lives?

    • SoftTalker 3 days ago

      Yep the escrow for taxes and insurance is the biggest part of my mortgate payment by far.

  • HeyLaughingBoy 3 days ago

    > you can dig a well for water

    You can pay someone upwards of $10,000 to drill a well for you. FTFY!