Comment by Vilian
Relevant xkcd https://xkcd.com/2501
It's weird seeing people without computer familiarity using one, it feels like they are blind, they click in a button with a label and a icon, and when you ask todo it again they can't find it(even when you literally tell them the button name), it feels like their vision FOV is limited to a few centimeters, like those horror games flashlight lol, it's my own experience, but yeah, they aren't going to remember the error, or don't even read it, imagine print screen it before clicking "ok"
What's worse is how much the modern world and software quality has trained them to just be so helpless.
My mom has been using Windows computers since before I was born. She would spend all sorts of time working on the computer, creating tests for her classes, researching my sister's illness on the pre-2000s internet (with great success even!), had no problem adopting software over the years as things upgraded and changed, had no problems pivoting to using a Macbook at work, had extremely few problems adapting to remote learning, to the point of asking me for advice using OBS to improve her ability to run a virtual classroom (for things like different "scenes" and control over her output video). She broadly understands the concept of "files" and directories and how to move them and transfer them and manage them well.
But at some point, she forgot how the "Start" menu worked! You put her at a Windows desktop and she doesn't know how to start the program she needs to use! Do you know how much goddamned money Microsoft spent ingraining the start button in people's heads in the 90s?
But it's just gone. Because modern web based stuff follows no patterns. It makes no sense. Shit just happens sometimes, with no feedback, with no warning, and sometimes breaks while only leaving a damn error message in the javascript console, and the behavior changes from one day to the next. The only way people who aren't experts can hope to navigate this hellhole is to learn EXACT workflows and never change them and never think of changing them and never attempt to do anything novel in case it breaks everything without warning and don't pay heed to any dialogs because they don't contain useful info anyway.
Like, what did we expect to happen when we punished people for trying to build mental models of this stuff? You cannot build simple mental models of webapps. Companies don't want you to, because then you might not be as bamboozled and you might be less susceptible to advertising.