Comment by juancroldan

Comment by juancroldan 5 days ago

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Facebook is now a birthday-reminder and old-connection-keeper tool loaded with empty content to feel less sad. Instagram and TikTok are also trending towards content consumption. Messaging and group chats are the only real social media now

wil421 5 days ago

Facebook groups are like the new Internet forums. There’s tons of stuff that’s moved to Facebook groups like Fishing and Car forums. For a lot of content Facebook groups are much better than forums.

Marketplace seems to be the new Craigslist and much better IMHO.

Posting is probably dead or dying. I haven’t done it in a decade or so.

  • ultrarunner 5 days ago

    They could be huge in this, but sadly they'll continue to ruin it because (IMHO) they are rotten at the core. I can't tell you how many times I've seen a question posted on a relevant topic, switched tabs to consult the manual to verify my memory, and then gone back only to see Facebook do its ADHD reload and bury the question.

    Once people get sufficiently frustrated and the ad revenue declines below the cost of running the servers, we will immediately lose all of the information shared there. None of it will be archived like the old forums. It's a genuinely sad situation.

    • bschwindHN 4 days ago

      > and then gone back only to see Facebook do its ADHD reload and bury the question

      Does anyone know why facebook does this? It's the most infuriating thing, like it's assuming the poor user doesn't know how to "refresh" a page so it does it for them, because clearly they got stuck on an old crusty piece of content.

      • zoky 4 days ago

        You know exactly why they do it. To generate “engagement”.

  • HeadsUpHigh 5 days ago

    >For a lot of content Facebook groups are much better than forums

    Facebook groups are very disjointed and the algo does a bad job and keeping the good bits floating to the top.

  • dboreham 5 days ago

    In my experience the Facebook groups always turn to crap, especially if it's a group that attracts more than about 500 users. Abusive posts, scam posts, fake groups with the same name created by bots. I've reverted to old school forums for all my special interests. Marketplace is still the best classifieds product though.

    • freehorse 4 days ago

      It depends on the mods and the specific communities the groups are about. I have seen what you describe in some, but not at all in others.

  • spacechild1 4 days ago

    > For a lot of content Facebook groups are much better than forums.

    How so? I find FB groups strictly worse than old-school forums.

  • Lammy 4 days ago

    I don't even enjoy FB Groups any more because of the way they filter comments to “most relevant” so I have to click twice to change it to “all comments” on every single post, over and over and over. Tiresome.

    It's embarrassingly dumb sometimes, too, like a post can show “3 comments”, I click it, and the “most relevant” will just be two of them with a bunch of empty space left over in the UI. Just show me all of the fucking comments omfg!!!

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  • shanecleveland 5 days ago

    Only reason I caved and joined Facebook a few years ago was to get access to a group dedicated to Boston Whaler boats. There were two previously-thriving forums that were slowly dying. The forums were great. The Facebook group was not better, just alive.

  • freehorse 4 days ago

    Also events, it's probably the platform affecting discoverability of events the most.

    The ways fb is (still) the most useful to users are the ones meta cares the least about.

  • throw042425 5 days ago

    That's interesting. In what sense would you say FB groups are much better than forums?

    But yeah I agree, groups and marketplace are the only things keeping FB alive.

    • iamacyborg 5 days ago

      They’re better in the sense that people actually use them

      • shanecleveland 5 days ago

        Probably true with most successful things. Marketplace is just a low barrier to entry for people already using Facebook. I find it generally terrible, but that's where people are selling.

  • naijaboiler 4 days ago

    would rather use reddit for foruming than facebook groups

    • freehorse 4 days ago

      I would rather have ol' good forums. I would rather have years long posts in the frontpage and the ability to bump a long burried post when new info is up, and not missing the opportunity to engage with a topic just because 1-2 days passed without me logging in and thus the post, being more than 1-2 days old, is not in the frontpage anymore.

corobo 5 days ago

Ooh speaking of birthday reminders - if Facebook is browsing this thread looking for things to fix: bring back the birthday iCal feed!

You literally had notifications via my calendar bringing me back to your site every few days/weeks to say happy birthday and maybe have a bit of a browse. Now the reminders are in my todo list and I say happy birthday via text or call instead. Path of least pain in the backside.

Absolutely bizarre they ditched the birthdays and events iCal feeds.

  • barbazoo 5 days ago

    Funny that you think they’d prioritize something that’d be useful, good for you.

    • pixl97 5 days ago

      Boss: "you're only allowed to work on things that serve more ad views"

    • reverendsteveii 5 days ago

      Remember when they told us that capitalism would cause people to trip over themselves to give us what we want and need because that would naturally be where most of the profit could be had? Why do you think it didn't do that in this case? The answer of course is that facebook does serve it's customers. It serves the people who can afford to buy ads, and what it serves them is you.

      • asimpletune 5 days ago

        Honestly, everything would be much better if either a.) people just paid for stuff or b.) governments decided ad-tech in its present form should not be a thing, and regulated the retention of personal data as a liability, to make targeted advertising less-personalized/unprofitable.

        As a system for discovering price, free markets work really well. The downsides comes from politicians not understanding/caring the limitations of free markets and what kinds of problems they're simply not intended to solve. These are the economic factors beyond price. More broadly, they're our values.

        If we outsource the need for philosophy/wisdom to the free markets then there is no reason why the market will not demand child labor, 7 day work weeks, single use everything, and privatized security forces. We failed to take action earlier, and the same kind of stuff has already happened to the environment. Not to mention that gambling and security fraud are making a comeback.

      • anonymars 5 days ago

        The missing ingredient is usually "competition"

        Same thing with the "private sector is always better" religion - if there's no meaningful competition, you end up no choice coupled with a profit motive, vs. no choice but I can at least nominally vote and be represented

        ISPs are usually a good example in the US. My old apartment had one provider, and wouldn't you know it, at my new apartment with multiple providers, I got five times the bandwidth for half the price.

        See also: enshittification

      • ryandrake 5 days ago

        And, any time some company gets close to "give us what we want and need," the company will be bought by Facebook, or funded by VCs, and new ownership will "correct" the problem.

    • corobo 5 days ago

      Haha of course. I was probably just one of a mere few hundred million people using it in a way that brought me back to the algorithm so it got scrapped for underutilisation :(

    • philjohn 5 days ago

      They already send an email or push notification ... so yeah, there would be very little metric movement to justify this as having enough impact for year end PSC.

    • fallingknife 4 days ago

      We don't pay them, so really why would they? I don't do work for people who don't pay me either.

  • jandrese 5 days ago

    iCal feeds don't bring you into the site. The whole point of Facebook is to be a walled garden that discourages you from going elsewhere. You're lucky they are not like X and deprioritize external links. Or maybe they do, I have not tested it myself.

    https://theoatmeal.com/comics/reaching_people

    • wwweston 3 days ago

      The popular wisdom is that FB has deprioritized external links -- some accounts on FB are now posting an image with a blurb and then saying "link in comments." I don't know if they're doing it on rumor, official communication, or having tested clickthru rates themselves, but several of these have large enough media operations that all of those sources are plausible.

    • corobo 5 days ago

      I would click the link in the event to go say happy birthday to the person! I guess I wasn't the norm though aye, it's big numbers that matter

  • sunnybeetroot 4 days ago

    Sounds like you use iOS? Add the birthday to the friend’s contact and it’ll appear in your calendar automatically. You’re welcome in advance.

    • corobo 3 days ago

      Interesting idea and kinda really makes sense.. I guess at the time I just chucked them into todos as I have plenty of friction free ways to get tasks into Todoist haha.

      I'll give it a go, nice one

dspillett 5 days ago

> Facebook is now a birthday-reminder

It isn't even good at that. I'll often see “it was [whoever]'s birthday yesterday” when I did login on the last couple of days, and it didn't bother to mention the fact then. Too many ads and pointless reals to show me on those days, to have space to insert the now/upcoming birthday reminder, presumably.

mrspuratic 5 days ago

"mbasic.facebook.com" was a vastly simpler UI, and had notably less noise content. Sometimes "back" navigation even worked properly. They killed that last year :/

Were it not for distant family using it, I would almost certainly download my content and nuke my account.

endemic 5 days ago

> Messaging and group chats are the only real social media now

This is accurate as far as I'm concerned. Interacting directly with actual friends; no ads or clickbait content injected.

reverendsteveii 5 days ago

I was thrilled to find out that I can block facebook.com in my etc/hosts and still have access to messenger. Hard limiting the time I spend being "social" with robots and hostile outsiders has gone from being a good idea to being a survival strategy as we got further into the industrialization of the attention economy.

xyst 5 days ago

Anybody worth keeping in contact with, I have their phone number.

The only use for Facebook is for the marketplace.

  • the_af 5 days ago

    Sadly for me, there's another use case for Facebook: special interest groups (as in niche groups for hobbies).

    When the Great Migration away from phpbb forums and bulletin boards happened, lots of these groups moved to Facebook. I loathed it, but joining the migration was the only way of keeping up with stuff that interested me.

    Now there's another Great Migration to Discord, which I won't follow. Real-time chat simply triggers my FOMO and is stressful to me. So any community that moves primarily to Discord will lose me as a member. I suppose nobody will miss me though.

diggan 5 days ago

> Instagram and TikTok are also trending towards content consumption

Huh? They were explicitly built for that purpose, not "trending towards". Without content consumption, those platforms are nothing.

  • KeplerBoy 5 days ago

    I guess he meant content produced by "professional" content creators with the only goal of earning money instead of interesting pictures from your friends' life.

    At least that's how I experience Instagram these days. It's a chat app where people send each other content made by others in the DMs.

    Very few of the people I know personally have posted in the last few years, but most of them seem to casually use the app to explore whatever the algorithm shows them.

boringg 5 days ago

Actually it's biggest value is marketplace though the scammers know that too.

  • wintermutestwin 5 days ago

    Marketplace is the absolute worst UX I could imagine.

    • slt2021 5 days ago

      highly overpaid Facebook engineers must be forced to use Marketplace to try to buy their cars, instead of buying from a dealer.

      maybe that way they would improve things a bit

bentcorner 5 days ago

Discord are where the kids are at. But with them going public it's going to enshittify quickly and it's only a matter of time before they move onto something new.