Comment by rulesofthrw

Comment by rulesofthrw 3 days ago

3 replies

First rule of interviewing- NEVER say bad things about past employers (or anything else, always be positive). Second rule of interviewing- ALWAYS say good things about past employers, or say nothing. Unless you are specifically asked about employer you prefer not to talk about- then ALWAYS say only good things about them. You talking bad things about past employment means you will also talk bad things about people you try to join. And it also potentially can backfire if recruiter figures you was actually the problem.

IMHO, if you do have negativity in you it will leak out later and make your situation worse. Better treat the core problem- which is you not being able to leave past where it belongs- in the past.

zerr 3 days ago

Isn't that a cliché? So basically, you are adhering a cliché, and everyone knows it. Is it a good thing? Not sure.

  • rulesofthrw 3 days ago

    I live these rules for 30 years and never got rejected. You can do whatever you want, like go and use interview time to vent out your bad internal state, who knows- maybe you'll get better outcome.

    From experience, people who can't hold their tongue and tell bad things about their past bosses or coworkers, will also tell bad things about you behind your back.

  • icedchai 2 days ago

    You just have to play pretend for a few hours, while you interview. Think of it as a game.