Comment by kstrauser

Comment by kstrauser 8 days ago

30 replies

When I've found myself being publicly tsk'ed by the people around me, I've taken a moment to try go figure out why they disapprove of what I'm saying. It's been a useful life exercise.

ceejayoz 8 days ago

Sometimes you're right, sometimes they are. Sometimes, as the Rick & Morty quote goes, "Your boos mean nothing, I've seen what makes you cheer."

  • kstrauser 8 days ago

    For sure, but then the followup question is "do I want to spend my time and energy around a bunch of people I think are wrong?'

    • ceejayoz 8 days ago

      If they're correct, maybe?

      • kstrauser 8 days ago

        If they're correct, and constantly telling you you're wrong...

        • ceejayoz 8 days ago

          … you have an opportunity for self-improvement.

    • Tadpole9181 8 days ago

      Often times, you comment not to change the mind of the person you're replying to, but to provide a rebuttal for the readers at home. If nobody challenges problematic ideology or corrects misinformation, it can spread like a disease.

dkjaudyeqooe 8 days ago

Shouldn't that be directed to those with an agenda who and are flagging certain posts?

Those of us who complain about this highly targeted flagging just want to avoid censorship. I can't see how we need to reflect on this.

  • dpkirchner 8 days ago

    Forums like this are "censored" and that's a really good thing. We don't need a steady stream of (for example) hate for women, minorities, and trans people that you see on truly uncensored forums.

    • fwip 8 days ago

      This is correct. For the people who disagree, go read Slashdot at -1 for a while. Then pretend that you're one of the people who are targeted by that vitriol, and think about how much you'd read the HN comments if they were like that.

    • dkjaudyeqooe 8 days ago

      I agree, but when that is abused because of a minorities' preference, then it's bad.

      That's what's happening here.

      • dpkirchner 8 days ago

        I think we need to get specific -- what preferences are you referring to, and who is the minority?

        EcommerceFlow mentioned opinions that are "very normal nationally." I don't want to assume the worst so I'm trying not to read in to that.

        • bee_rider 8 days ago

          I mean, I don’t generally like to go over somebody’s posting history because it feels like stupid very-online silliness, but they brought it up.

          I see some unflagged center-right political opinions sometimes. It is stuff that a mainstream democrat would probably disagree with but find, like, not odious or offensive. Therefore I think they are just getting flagged because any political opinions here have a chance of getting flagged. This is how the website is supposed to work, if we as a community decided that mainstream political opinions were ok, the site would become a place to argue about what exactly is considered mainstream.

    • cbeach 8 days ago

      All illegal speech should be hidden from public discussion.

      However, it would be disconcerting if stating biological facts led to censorship on a forum that focusses on science and technology.

      The definition of "hate" has been stretched a lot over the last few years, and if that restricts discussion of facts and ideas, then it is harmful.

      • kstrauser 8 days ago

        One major problem is when people presume that their simplistic understanding of a subject is factual, and that everyone else is going off emotion. For example, some people will erroneously claim that the 2 genetic human options are "XX = woman, XY = man". Those seem to be the most likely combinations, partly because we don't collect DNA from 100% of the population and compare it to the observed anatomy, but they're clearly and documentedly not the only options.

        Even without considering trans people, it's factually untrue that "XX = woman, XY = man, and those are the only possibilities." And yet, people who stopped at high school biology will argue until they're blue in the teeth that anyone with a more nuanced take is anti-science.

        • biddlybop 8 days ago

          Yes and some people will also make scientifically inaccurate claims like "sex is a spectrum" and "there are more than two sexes" and "it is possible for humans to change sex".

          There's a great deal of misunderstanding around this topic. Having open-minded, interesting and reflective discussion about topics like this should however lead to greater understanding. But that is not possible if it gets flagged and censored.

      • Zak 8 days ago

        "Stating biological facts" is code for an opinion about how society should view trans people, which is off-topic for HN.

  • bee_rider 8 days ago

    They are flagging posts that they see as pushing an agenda. There isn’t some official separation of agenda-less and agenda-full ideas.

    • cbeach 8 days ago

      Posts that break guidelines should be flagged, and the bar should be pretty high.

      I don't think there is a guideline that bans posts from "pushing an agenda" (which would be very subjective)

      • dpifke 8 days ago

        From https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html: "Please don't use Hacker News for political or ideological battle. It tramples curiosity."

        "Agendas" are often ideological battlegrounds. I flag comments, even those I agree with, that I recognize from experience are going to lead to the same tired, off-topic debates and flame wars.

        Lately, I've also been maintaining a personal uBlock Origin filter list to hide certain prolific rule breakers. I would love if HN had an equivalent built-in "killfile"[0] functionality for auto-hiding submissions and comments. (This has been suggested to the admins, and was seemingly received favorably, but I'm sure it's a matter of resources.)

        [0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kill_file

      • AnimalMuppet 8 days ago

        I draw a distinction between posts and comments here.

        Comments that are "pushing an agenda" are noticeable because they Just. Will. Not. Deviate. From. The. Party. Line. Ever. They will never acknowledge an opposing viewpoint's point, no matter how valid. It's not a good faith conversation, and it deserves to be both downvoted and flagged. When one side (or both!) is like talking to a brick wall, this is often what's going on.

        Posts are harder. If user X posts articles pushing a viewpoint, that's harder to prove that they're intending to do that. Or it would be, except that user X will also usually be active in the discussion about the article, and their comments will fit the above pattern. If you see that, then you can say that the post was probably pushing an agenda as well.

      • Teever 8 days ago

        How do you feel about flags being public?

        • cbeach 8 days ago

          That would be very positive IMO. It would expose bad actors.

          However, the bar for creating new accounts is low, so bad actors could create lots of accounts cheaply and use them for flagging. That's why I think flagging needs to be a privilege that requires a high user "trust level" - see https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=43559629

aliqot 8 days ago

I don't think the person getting flagged is always deserving of the dogpile. Your comment implies "you should take this time in timeout to think about your actions" which is just a gentler form of rhetorical struggle sessions, and not always warranted.

  • kstrauser 8 days ago

    For sure. I've had comments flagged that I thought were perfectly reasonable and non-controversial. My first reaction was to be angry and annoyed. But then my kinder angels suggested that perhaps I phrased my idea poorly and people misunderstood that I was largely agreeing with them, or at least very respectfully disagreeing. And then I decided to be more careful with my phrasing next time.