Comment by cobertos
I agree, having a little private intranet is great, it's where I'm at. But losing the interactions that lead to finding those people to share an intranet with that happened more often on early internet makes finding people so time consuming, or not possible.
Where have you met the people you share your intranet with?
Admittedly only on Discord & private chat apps. Luckily, the way Tailscale's network + private DNS works helps a lot in revoking access to a server you once gave beforehand.