Comment by seanmcdirmid
Comment by seanmcdirmid 3 days ago
Reciprocity is a great idea. It takes the emotion out of the decision: we don’t allow X from Y because Y doesn’t allow X from us. It makes sense for trade at least.
Then there is no need to find another excuse that might be offensive.
It also lets somebody else make your decision for you, though, which is probably not a good strategy.