Comment by esrauch
> You probably roll your eyes when someone tells you they don't have time for some activity you deem valuable.
There's a few categories where it makes sense to roll your eyes, like if they say they have no time to shower or have never been to one of their kid's baseball games.
But for things that aren't basic human expectations, I think you'd have to a real jerk to roll your eyes at someone not having time. No time to cook multi-pot dishes? No time to exercise? No time to read? No time to go to museums? No time to meet at the bar for a drink? Any of them sensible.
No one can do everything, we all make our priorities and its well within their choice not to have any one optional life thing at the top of their personal stack.
Agree completely, my point was indeed they are choices, not lack of time. I think I came across too judgy even trying not to. You made a better job of it.