Comment by freedomben

Comment by freedomben 3 days ago

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I was homeless for about 8 months as a teenager (18) after leaving home under contentious conditions with my parents. I ended up hiking up the mountain and finding an off trail and secluded location to pitch a tent and build a fire ring and set up for long term camping. I built a primitive but mostly adequate setup for living. Baths were a nightmare because the river was freezing and rapid, but other than that I got into good routines. Later on I was fortunate enough to have a girlfriend who I could stay with on occasion and get hot showers.

I eventually joined the US military and got out of my hole, and I now have some fond memories of that time thanks to the power of nostalgia. Now it feels like life was a lot simpler then, and it was. I also got in the greatest shape of my life because I had to hike 3 steep miles, often with a heavy backpack, in and out twice a day (sometimes more).

giantg2 3 days ago

Not going to lie. That sounds awesome and was not the vision of homelessness the title prompted in me.

  • runjake 3 days ago

    Not OP, but it sucks in the moment, but brings fond memories later in life. I have a lot of these "sucked at the time/fond now" memories with regard to living in the woods and serving in the military.

    If you reach one of these forks in the road, pick the route that sucks. Bonus: it makes you more resilient.

    • giantg2 3 days ago

      Yeah, type 2 fun is the best. It's just risky because it can very quickly turn into type 3.