Comment by ARandomerDude

Comment by ARandomerDude 3 months ago

6 replies

Increasing the quantity and quality of good influences on your children is just good parenting.

If I know there's a kid down the street who seems like he will grow up to be a criminal, and another kid who seems like he'll grow up to be a kind, hard-working, well adjusted person, there is a 100% guarantee I will encourage my kids to play with the second kid, not the first.

nineplay 3 months ago

The poster above references the 'average person'. Do you think that the average person is not going to be a good influence?

  • theamk 3 months ago

    Average person _where_?

    If the school is bad enough, then an average student there (because there are many more students than teachers) might not be a good influence.

    There are schools in my state with <50% graduation rate, the average student there won't even finish the school.

    • cratermoon 3 months ago

      So ability to graduate from high school determines the worth of a person?

      • theamk 3 months ago

        I am not saying anything about "worth of a person", I don't believe it is even a thing.

        All I know that children (and many adults too) do similar thing that their peers do. So if I want to increase the chance that my child will graduate from high school, they should be around people who will graduate from high school. Similarly, if no one in their class will go to college, the chances they will go to college will be smaller.

        Note there are exception to the each rule, and I am talking about "chances", not certainties.

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