Comment by RIMR

The problem is that when you are trying to accept your fate and come to peace with it, and everyone else around you is trying to give you false hope. It's hard to break free from the constant futile wishful thinking if everyone around you is doing it for you.

Sometimes you should just let people work with their doctors and come to peace with their situation.

If I was dying of cancer, and someone told me to eat apricots, I might shove the apricots down their meddling throat.