Comment by isoprophlex

Comment by isoprophlex 10 months ago

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I have, I think, no real expert advice to offer you. Except this small anecdote.

One of the kids in my 4-year old son's class is blind. I went along for a day to help out on a school trip to some massive playground, which involved loading 60 kids into a bus (they usually walk/bike to school, so not everyone was used to the idea of large buses); keeping track of them in the playground, feeding them, etc etc. Lots of potential for disaster, haha.

Throughout the day, it struck me that for the most part this blind kid was just another kid amongst peers. It was very wholesome to see the kids understand his limits instinctively, help him out whenever needed but mostly just bantering and playing alongside him.

I never gave these things much thought before, but observing this I saw the importance of having quality, supportive peers to interact with. I hope you can find a supportive, nurturing environment for your boy: one that highlights and reinforces his strengths, not his weaknesses.

YinglingHeavy 10 months ago

Hijacking this to give advice critical for a baby who is only a few months old.

OP, are you in the US? Contact your states "Birth To 3" program immediately. You can get a Vision Specialist to come to your house. I imagine other countries have similar programs.

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Reading the rest of the thread, you HN'ers are very blessed to be ignorant that such a program exists.

  • Disruptive_Dave 10 months ago

    > Reading the rest of the thread, you HN'ers are very blessed to be ignorant that such a program exists.

    By this logic pretty much every single person in existence is "blessed to be ignorant" of the thousands (more?) of potential ailments they aren't facing right now. Seems like a silly POV.

    • icepat 10 months ago

      Yes? I don't see a problem with this line of reasoning.

      • majewsky 10 months ago

        "Ignorant" implies that they are actively avoiding this information. A less inflammatory choice of words would be "unaware".

        For instance, it is extremely silly to consider non-Americans "ignorant" if they don't know US-only programs.

        • icepat 10 months ago

          No, it does not imply that. Ignorant simply means "lacking knowledge". You're implying the separate term "willfully ignorant" means the same thing as ignorant. If it did, then willfully ignorant would be redundant, which it is not.

dunghill 10 months ago

It's interesting how kids can adapt so naturally. We've got so many preconceived ideas about difficulties.

When I was young there was a deaf kid in our school. We just figured out communication as needed. Kids don't overthink things like adults do. The environment matters, but sometimes we should just let kids figure it out.

  • fsckboy 10 months ago

    >We've got so many preconceived ideas

    they're not preconceived, you didn't have them when you were a child. I think this points to the benefits to their own development (and then to the rest of us) that abled children get from disabilities being mainstreamed as much as is practical.

    • webspinner 10 months ago

      As soon as you turn 25, they become preconceived. Or probably before that.