Comment by nerdile
So in summary: iOS used to accept untrusted certificates, yikes! Now, it validates the server cert, and people are upset? This blatantly insecure thing is broken now and the posters don't want to set it up securely?
It seems like these people are just struggling with how to properly set up their email server and clients when using a private CA. If you're going to use your own CA, then configure your client to trust it. The rest of us should be able to enjoy secure defaults and not have to worry about our less informed family members being tricked into bypassing basic security protections like TLS validation.
bad summary. it prompted you to accept the certificate upon first use and then pinned it which is far different than what you are describing in terms of security implications.