Comment by dgfitz
> But God forbid men be aware that we have breasts and that sometimes they dangle or have nipples.
They’re aware. What a strange comment. Are you mad?
Edit: you have more nipples than I do, and I’ve never felt compelled to talk about it until right now.
The primary reason females have to wear bras in professional environments is because men sexualize them. I find them horrifically uncomfortable.
I was using hyperbole as a rhetorical device to point out some of the absurdities of professional dress codes - I would have thought that was evident from context. Imagine a man who worked in a building that doesn't allow shorts even though it lacks A/C; he might make a comment along the lines of 'god forbid the customers know we have legs.' Or men who are in professions where they have to wear full suits in the summer.
I talked about it because my femaleness is directly relevant to why I feel uncomfortable in professional clothes since the biggest reason is bras, which men don't wear.