Comment by S_Bear
ACE 7 here.
I'm doing OK in life. It took a long time for me to stop running away from things because I didn't trust anyone for a long time. I'm still cynical and paranoid, but I have a steady government job, a solid early retirement plan, and a supportive wife that loves me.
People are surprised I didn't amount to more in life, but I live my life 100% on my terms, and that's what's important to me.
Not rich, not poor, but I enjoy life in general.